Tips on Making Effective Marriage Proposals

One of the most romantic parts of courtship and dating is the time when proposals are made. This can be a risk to take but it can be very memorable especially with a mutually positive response from the other party. Here are some of the tips that will make an effective and successful proposal.

• Discuss about marriage with your partner first before you propose.
• Know what ring style of ring she would want to wear. This is what she would wear for the rest of her married life.
• Be practical and sure. Have an insurance policy for the ring that you will give her.
• Ask permission from the father of your future bride before you even do your thing.
• Keep this a secret to surprise your partner. Trust people who can keep your secret and make sure that they don’t know all the details.
• It has been a tradition and it is still effective. I’m talking about the chivalry on the knee proposal. It shows chivalry and respect.
• Be creative in making your proposal where you can add something memorable such as background music, fireworks, etc…
• Make a Plan B in case your Plan A backfires.

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Evaluating Yourself to a Relationship Success

Before you even start in finding a relationship and into a destination towards a lasting love, you have to evaluate yourself first on your readiness to form and sustain a romantic union. If you fail to do this first, you are placing yourself in danger of experiencing the devastation brought by a failed relationship.

You have to be ready in many things that can affect your future relationship. Being ready is an important factor and it involves many aspects. It involves the evaluation of your own behavior, feelings, and relationship experiences. You have to point out on which areas you still need to have greater focus on. Failed relationships may affect your self-esteem and hope but if you will try to evaluate what went wrong in the past, you will be able to fix it and be a new kind of person in a relationship which will make you a better person.

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Ready to Have a Date Again

You have loved once and then you failed. You have already recovered from that past love and now you are ready to love again. You have spent good times alone and now you are ready for a new romance. But since you have been absent for a relationship for a long time, it may seem that you have already forgotten some of the rules where some may have already changed. You are no longer updated on the places where you can meet people, the way you will act in a first date, the things about sex, and the other basic things that you should know about dating.

In order to know the rules again, you have to go back to your journal if you are maintaining one. You can get ideas there on how you acted last time. You can also watch television about dating. You can always go back to your books because some of the techniques are still applicable. For fast and updated advices, use the Internet.

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Knowing the Right and Wrong Person to Date

You have already felt good about yourself and you are sure that you love yourself. You have also mastered your character and got over with the past pains and hurt especially with the past relationship. You felt ready for a relationship and you started finding the man or woman that you like. You started dating and you still have one issue: is he (or she) the right man (or woman) for me?

How will you know if the one you are dating is the right one? You might feel that you really like the person that you are with right now but are you sure that you can make the relationship last with the person you are with now. If you are dating the wrong person, the relationship will not surely last. You will know if the person is right for you when you really know what you want in a partner. You also have to know what you don’t want in a partner to easily know if the person is the wrong person.

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Places to Find a Good Date

Are you already sick of tired hanging out on different bars and you see the same people everytime you go there? You must have seen them having partners but you just can’t get on the competition. Don’t worry because here are some of the places that are effective hang outs where you might probably find the right man or woman for you. These are places where you can find lots of supply with little competition.

For women, spending your free time at a driving range can showcase you with men who are also looking for a good woman. You can also go to music rock concerts or outdoor food activities. For men, you can always meet girls in a large shoe warehouse where men and women shoes are available. You can also have girls with substance in book clubs and stores. By going to these places, you can surely have a date in no time.

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Losers in Dating and Relationship

Do you consider yourself as a loser in a relationship? You have to admit it because you are not alone. Tremendous numbers of letters are received by love advisers about people considering themselves as losers in a relationship. Losers are not really the one who is hurt in the relationship but they are the ones who hurt someone, the ones that are abusive, controlling, and manipulative. Their victims are not the losers but they are.

In a relationship where you are the victim of the losers, you have to think that you are the winner and don’t let that hurt consume you. Moving on is easy when you know you are not the one who did something wrong in a relationship. Those losers are considered dysfunctional individuals that are the reason why they are trying to be manipulative and controlling in the relationship. All you have to do is to move on and find a winner like you.

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Attracting the Opposite Sex

The dating game could sometimes be a hard game if you don’t know how to increase your odds. You have to know how to play the game and be sure that you know the rules to follow that will make you win.

First, you have to be the center of attention, not doing obnoxious things like you lack attention, but by simply staying at a place where they can see you and attract people there. Make a few walks but don’t tend to trip on the carpet or the chair. Next, you have to choose your color. For men, blue is more attractive to women for some reasons. For women, you can wear pink but not the colors that are too aggressive or intimidating. Next, you have to use body language and make yourself approachable. You have to smile. Finally, you have to use a scent that will make a guy or girl go gaga over you.

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